Dear Mark, I split up 2 years ago with my boyfriend. I am living with fears since then. When i split up with him, he told me he was HIV positive, about six months ago i called him and he apologized for what he has done. He told me it was all lies and he...

Dear Mark, I’m currently involved in this love triangle. I just ended a nine and a half year relationship. I miss him a great deal but I never loved him. Two years ago, we decided to open up our relationship for outside sex and we met another couple. We hooked up with them for a...

my name is Bill.  I’m not sure if you got my first email about a week ago.  I think I messed up the address.  I was wondering if you would be interested in starting a support group for gay male parents.  I wrote you a long time ago and asked for assisstance in telling my...

Dear Mark, I have been seeing this guy for about six months now. He’s a great guy and about ten years my senior. The only problem is that he is just getting out of a long term relationship. It was a hard breakup but they are trying to be friends. I have met the ex...

Dear Mark, I am top Puerto Rican gay, 42 with bright brown eyes and very handsome. I have a problem. People just come looking to me for sex. I do not like going with different men. I would like a relationship with one. But that never happens. My friends tell me to stop complaining because...

Dear Mark I wanted to respond to a letter you wrote a few months ago. You said this was a manageable disease and I disagree with you. Since you work with people afflicted with HIV/AIDS, I wanted to write in to remind you that NOT everyone has this as a “manageable disease”….I for one am...

I have been trying to get a legal status in this country since 1990 and the only thing I have so far is an adjusting status meaning work permit and social security. I’m 43 y/o married w/ one child 15 y/o and because him I went to the doctor for a physical. The tests showed...

Dear Mark,   I decided to take your advice and talk to John… We talked on Saturday afternoon and I got my answer. I left, after talking with him, in tears and full of sadness for having lost something that I think had so much potential. A true love… a true lover. After coming clean,...

That is an AWESOME op-ed on the state not only of the Catholic church, but of all churches.  I know that for me, my heart broke, and almost my spirit of faith, in the midst of the “coming out” process and how the church really looks at gays in its midst.  I know that it...

Dear Mark, I have been an out and proud gay woman for almost 15 years. Count them….15. I told my parents that I was gay as a teenager almost as soon as I knew myself. A few years after that my mom and dad divorced but have always stayed friendly. My dad remarried to a...