Published in Red Magazine   A kiss is worth a thousand words. What is in the power of a kiss. What does it signify? For most of us, it is the promise of something more. It can be the gateway to our deepest longings around love, passion, romance. I have patients in my practice who...

Listen in as one real-life couple works through a major crisis in their relationship with the help of a marriage therapist. By Lois Cahall THE COUPLE Jenny: 37, co-owner of a restaurant Brian: 41, chef/co-owner of a restaurant Married: 11 years Kids: James, 7 months old THE COUNSELOR Mark Rutherford, West Palm Beach, Florida THE BACKGROUND After a 13-hour day working at...

Dear Sexpert, There’s this guy at the local video store that I think may be interested in me. It’s not an adult video place or anything like that. It’s just for regular videos. I go in about once a week and every time I look up from the movies I’m browsing, he’s staring right at...

Dear Sexpert,  My boyfriend and I just broke up after being together for almost three years. We were really good friends before we started dating, and about three months after we started sleeping together, he moved in with me. We had a very good relationship, got along great, rarely ever fought, and enjoyed each other’s...

I tend to be a premature ejaculator and my penis is very sensitive and actually quite small.  I always am embarassed when I have sex, but my partner says he doesnt care.  Also, when Im done cumming, I am not interested in sex anymore.  Is there something majorly wrong with me or what??? Hey There,...

Dear Dr. Rutherford, I found your name listed in the Sexpert coulumn in MEN magazine, offering help, so I’m ask for it now. I have a very unusual problem I will just bet you have never heard before. I am a 52-year-old gay near-virgin trying to find a partner for a long-term relationship. How did...

Hi Mark!   I was having a discussion recently with my best friend about fucking.  One of my favorite subjects!  We hit on a couple of topics that we disagreed strongly on, as usual.  I am hoping that you might find these questions somewhat interesting and perhaps worthy of being answered in your Sexpert column. I truly value your...

Dear Sexpert:  I have a question that I probably already know the answer for, but here goes anyway.  What kind of safe sex can you have with a guy is HIV+, if you are HIV-.  I never bareback, so hopefully that part is covered, but my question concerns oral.  I am a very oral guy...

Dear Dr. Rutherford, I found your name listed in the Sexpert coulumn in MEN magazine, offering help, so I’m ask for it now. I have a very unusual problem I will just bet you have never heard before. I am a 52-year-old gay near-virgin trying to find a partner for a long-term relationship. How did...

Dear Sexpert, My boyfriend and I just broke up after being together for almost three years. We were really good friends before we started dating, and about three months after we started sleeping together, he moved in with me. We had a very good relationship, got along great, rarely ever fought, and enjoyed each other’s...