QuestionMark? #98 Dear Mark, I’ve been HIV positive for over ten years and have never taken meds. My doctors have monitored me and told me my blood counts were good enough and I didn’t need meds. I always felt lucky because I remember all the trouble my friends had years ago when they...
QuestionMark? #99 Dear Mark, My boyfriend and I are on our 3 major break up. We have these blow out fights, break up and then about 3 months later realize how much we miss each other and get back together. Then after a few more months, we start annoying each other in the same...
QuestionMark? #100 I’m having a difficult time writing this. I go through many days where thoughts are less then “liveable” May have misspelled that but that’s my life, mis-spelled. 25 years aga I did the dumbmest thing of all. I tried to be Str8. I got married. and now at 50, I’m divorced and...
QuestionMark? #100 Mr. Rutherford, I have a question to ask. There’s this guy I saw at the grocery store. He is a pharmacy technician and works at the pharmacy department. He is younger than me. I see him looking at me the whole time I shop. Every time I go to the store and...
QuestionMark? #102 Dear Mark, I’m 53 and gay (black) and I’m having problems coming out of the closet. I have a son that’s 34 and I’m pretty sure he knows. I had been married to his mother for many years and then we separated about 5 years ago. I told her what was going...
QuestionMark? #103 Dear Sexpert, I am a 53 year old GWM, in good health for my age, in good shape, slim, tall, hairy chested body hair, and dark skin. At my age, and I don’t complain, I have been having hard-on erections every night or mornings about 1:30 AM or 2:00 AM, and I...
My problem with intercourse is not in the initial penetration (the pain here is minimal), but when my partner is fully inserted. The pain is terrible, like my anus is full, but not in a good way. I would compare it to the pain I felt when I had a sigmoidoscopy. Being a bottom is...
QuestionMark? #106 By Mark Rutherford LCSW My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. We were best friends before we started sleeping together, and he was the first to admit that he wanted to be more than friends. We live together now and always enjoy each other’s company. The...
QuestionMark #78 By Mark Rutherford LCSW I’m a gay male in my mid 40s’. I am very well endowed, its 13 inches long and 8 around, and I am uncut with a 2 inch overhang. You can imagine how hard it is to find men who will sleep with me, they all say it will...
Dear Mark, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. Two wonderful but very rocky years. I am 36 years old and he is almost 20 years older than I am. However, that isn t the problem. The reality is that I have had an ongoing drinking problem. I have been in...