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QuestionMark? #98   Dear Mark,   I’ve been HIV positive for over ten years and have never taken meds. My doctors have monitored me and told me my blood counts were good enough and I didn’t need meds. I always … Read More

QuestionMark? #99   Dear Mark, My boyfriend and I are on our 3 major break up. We have these blow out fights, break up and then about 3 months later realize how much we miss each other and get back … Read More

QuestionMark? #100   I’m having a difficult time writing this. I go through many days where thoughts are less then “liveable” May have misspelled that but that’s my life, mis-spelled. 25 years aga I did the dumbmest thing of all. … Read More

QuestionMark? #100   Mr. Rutherford, I have a question to ask.  There’s this guy I saw at the grocery store.  He is a pharmacy technician and works at the pharmacy department. He is younger than me.  I see him looking … Read More

QuestionMark? #102   Dear Mark, I’m 53 and gay (black) and I’m having problems coming out of the closet. I have a son that’s 34 and I’m pretty sure he knows. I had been married to his mother for many … Read More

QuestionMark? #103   Dear Sexpert, I am a 53 year old GWM, in good health for my age, in good shape, slim, tall, hairy chested body hair, and dark skin. At my age, and I don’t complain, I have been … Read More

My problem with intercourse is not in the initial penetration (the pain here is minimal), but when my partner is fully inserted. The pain is terrible, like my anus is full, but not in a good way. I would compare … Read More

QuestionMark? #106 By Mark Rutherford LCSW   My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. We were best friends before we started sleeping together, and he was the first to admit that he wanted to … Read More